OH, THANK GOODNESS, IT’S NOT JUST ME! was written by BJ Gallagher, one of my favorite authors and Lisa Hammond, founder and owner of Femail Creations catalog. It is a book by women, about women, for women (but I’m still allowed to like it!).
My wife and the women at our office just read it, and the verdict is in…they all love it! Lisa Hammond said it best…This book is a celebration of the circle of strength women share – the common experience in all of our lives.
The undeniable fact is that there is comfort and reassurance in knowing we’re not alone.
Here’s a sample story by Lisa titled:
‘MARTHA STEWART … NOT!’
by Lisa Hammond
It was October, so it was time for me to start talking about having a Halloween party – something I have done for at least half a dozen years. I don’t actually end up having a Halloween party; I just talk about having one. It has become a running joke around our house.
Entertaining and having friends over for dinner always seems like such a good idea but the truth is, I just never feel like I am good enough to actually do it.
I have ongoing chatter in my head that goes something like this: What are you going to make? Who are you going to invite? You don’t have the time. You will say you are going to do this and then you won’t get out of the office in time.
I have plenty of friends who seem to be able to manage both a successful career and entertaining frequently. They race home from work, whip up three course meals, and serve the perfect wine. They look calm, cool and collected when guests arrive. I am both impressed – and depressed – by this.
Recently, I wanted to be a thoughtful dinner guest at a friend’s home so I decided to at least bring dessert. Although I had a jam-packed day at work, I didn’t want to be a slacker, and figured I could handle making a cake. I did what I have done countless times – I decided to make a favorite family recipe, Raspberry Cream Cake.
Once I started to make the cake, I remembered why I don’t do it very often – half of the ingredients can only be found in the state where the recipe came from! So I had to wing it and substitute ingredients. Then the mixer fell apart as I was using it and whipped cream went flying all over the kitchen. Then the cake burned while I was stuck on a conference call. When I finally got the cake into the fridge for the mandatory five hours of chilling prior to being served, I decided to rename it the Raspberry Curse Cake and vowed never to make it again.
When my husband and I arrived at the dinner party – crappy Curse Cake in hand, our gracious hostess was looking relaxed as she put together a simple salad. And there I was – frazzled, with raspberry juice still in my hair. As we sat down to dinner I asked her for the recipe for the delicious rice dish she was serving. She laughed and handed me her phone as she said, “Are you kidding me? I didn’t have time to cook all of this – it’s take-out!”
Oh, I have so much to learn from other women! I had been stressing out all day, trying to simultaneously work and bake a cake, juggling mixers and conference calls and cursing like a sailor – while my wise friend had been at work phoning in take-out!
The entire episode made me realize how much pressure women are under to be all and do all – almost all of it self-imposed! How much are we missing out on because of our insecurity and fear?
By the time you read this I will have invited friends over for margaritas and dinner at our place – paper plates, take-out food, and fun will be had by all!
Reading this book is like sitting down with Lisa and BJ over a cup of coffee – or a dish of ice cream – and connecting with the heart and soul of what it means to be a woman. Women of all ages will love the wonderful stories, amusing anecdotes, and heart-felt poems, as well as the fabulous photos.
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To Life,
It’s not the date you were born, or the date you died, that really matters. It’s “the dash” between those years and what you do with it, to make a difference with your life.
I read The Dash, by Linda Ellis, for the first time on June 10, 2003, when it was sent to me by a friend, Anna Lee Wilson. She said, “Mac, you’re going to love this poem.” How right she was! I knew at that moment that I had to find a way to share these words with the rest of the world. So, I picked up the phone and called Linda about creating a beautiful gift book featuring her poem, The Dash. In addition, I told her that I’d love to write nine short chapters about how each of us can make a difference with “our dash.” Each chapter, I said, would reinforce each verse in the poem. She loved the idea, and the rest, as they say, is history. Since we published the book three years ago, I’m proud to say we’ve sold hundreds of thousands of copies. We also created The Dash in the form of a short inspirational movie that over 30 million people have viewed on the internet. We’ve received thousands of emails confirming that The Dash touched hearts and changed lives around the world.
Today, however, I’d like to share the story behind The Dash, as told by the author, Linda Ellis. It’s a wonderful story that I think you’ll enjoy.
An Excerpt from The Dash
by Linda Ellis
While it still amazes me, a simple poem I wrote one afternoon forever changed my life. It all began when I faxed a copy of this poem to a syndicated radio show in Atlanta. Soon after receiving it, the host of this popular show read it on the air. Little did I know how much my life would change from that day forward. Titled The Dash, these 36 lines have touched millions of lives and have literally taken on a life of their own by traveling all over the world. I call it uncomplicated poetry in a complicated world.
People are always asking me what, in particular, inspired me to write this poem. I believe it was a combination of things in my life at the time. It was during a period when I was working for the top executives of a very large and successful corporation. It was a strict company with a tense working environment.
I began to watch how the priorities in many lives there had become misaligned. It seemed to me that the bosses were worrying far too much about that which was inconsequential in the scope of life.
Also, resonating in the back of my mind were the words from a letter which had been previously routed around the office. It had been written by the wife of an employee who was aware that she was dying. I was so moved by that letter that I saved a copy of it and continue to live by her words:
Regrets? I have a few. Too much worrying. I worried about finding the right husband and having children, being on time, being late and so on. It didn’t matter. It all works out and it would have worked out without the worries and the tears.
If I would have only known then what I know now. But, I did and so do you. We’re all going to die. Stop worrying and start loving and living.
Her words stuck with me. Her letter made me stop and think. This is it. This is all we get.
I remember where I was when I first truly realized the significance of the piece that I had written. I was on a business trip in Minnesota, alone in a hotel room. I received an emotional email thanking me for sharing the message of the Dash from a student who had recently heard it as part of a memorial gathering for the Columbine High School students. I sat on the bed and cried.
Several years later, I found myself engulfed in the thoughts and feelings created by my own words as I listened to them read aloud, for what seemed like the very first time, at the funeral of my father…my best friend.
From being performed in an elementary school play somewhere in the heartland of America to being part of a State Supreme Court Justice’s speech, from being printed in best-selling novels to high school yearbooks, The Dash has truly affected millions. I may not be able to change the world with these words, but I have certainly been able to influence a portion of it! The poem’s words have convinced mothers to spend more time with their children, fathers to spend more time at home, and reunited long-lost loved ones.
The words have changed attitudes, and changed the direction of lives. They have, in their own way, made a difference. I know writing The Dash has changed my life. I hope reading it, in some way, may change yours.
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Do Women Want a Mama’s Boy?
One advice that I hear frequently is don’t date any guy who is a jerk to his mother. Or conversely, I hear the advice put this way: date someone who is good to his mama.
Some women even advice each other to never, ever consider marrying a guy who doesn’t worship his mother.
Let’s just talk straight here: while some of us were very fortunate to have wonderful mothers we have close relationships with, many of us don’t. The fact is that you cannot control who your mother is. Some of us got the luck of the draw, while others have not been lucky in the least.
For some of us who haven’t had stellar mothers, hopefully we have been lucky enough to have other influential parental figures in our life. For instance, man y men have close relationships with their grandmothers, a neighbor woman or a teacher growing up.
These relationships will help us down the line as we grow up and learn what women want and how to treat women right. When women say they want a man who is close to his mama OR close to another influential person in his life.
What women are looking for here, is something from your past that shows you know how to love and be loved. It doesn’t matter if it was the neighborhood baker who took you under his wing, your mother or your best friend’s mother. They just want to see that you know how to have this type of relationship.
So don’t despair if you were not blessed with a mother you can be close to. It’s just a symbol for something else. And in fact, although women say this, they also contradict it slightly by saying they are turned off by a mama’s boy.
So what does that mean?
That means that women don’t want a man who is going to talk constantly about how wonderful his mother is and expect his date or wife to live up to his idea of his mother.
Remember, it’s not being a mama’s boy that hurts or hinders your relationships – just like everything else in life it is the degree or your involvement. As with everything else it all boils down to moderation.
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Oh, Thank Goodness, It’s Not Just Me!
Have you ever wondered what was the “spark” that was behind some of the most successful businesses?
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What’s the Big Idea?
Take two happy people –one male and one female–and separate them from their parents. Add the following ingredients in generous proportions:
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Mix together, then thoroughly sift in daily life. Strain out jealousy, arrogance, selfishness, procrastination and accounting of wrongs. Bake in the trials and tribulations of life for 50 years, and then celebrate when golden.
The 100/0 Principle, by Al Ritter
Excerpt from The 100/0 Principle
By Al Ritter
You’re probably familiar with the old adage “it takes two to tango.” But to have happier, more productive relationships, you’ve got to stop dancing. The 100/0 Principle is the simplest, most direct and most effective way to create solid relationships; relationships that will benefit you both personally and professionally.
While it may take two to tango, it only takes you to commit to creating a relationship with the people in your life. Take full responsibility for your relationships and consciously choose to suspend judgment of people. Indeed, treat them with respect and dignity whether deserved or not.
Think about to whom you can apply The 100/0 Principle. Almost all parents easily and naturally have a 100/0 relationship with their children and grand-children—a state of unconditional love. Parents might not love how their children behave, but regardless of the tantrums and stubbornness, the fits and idiosyncrasies, at the end of the day, parents still have a fierce love for their children.
Most of us also have 100/0 relationships with our close friends. Our friends have proven themselves to us, so it’s fairly easy for us to take full responsibility for our friendships in good times or bad.
It’s in the other important relationships in my life, and probably yours too, where our track record needs improvement:
- Marriage. The divorce rate in the United States has been around 50% for a long time. Yet research has shown that virtually all marriages have challenges. Why does one person stay with a challenging marriage, while another looks for happiness in another mate? Certainly one valid explanation is The 100/0 Principle—whether someone chooses to take real responsibility for the relationship rather than depending on their marriage partner as their primary source of happiness. Remember that no one can make you happy, happiness is a response that you choose.
- Extended Family. Brothers, sisters, in-laws, aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, nephews. Most of us tend to have a spotty record here too. We tend to forget that our family members are the only ones we have—my Aunt Edna is my only Aunt Edna. It behooves me to create and sustain a relationship with her, and with my other extended family members too.What someone allegedly said or did to someone else 10 years ago shouldn’t impact your happiness today. It’s your choice whether you let it or not. When you hold onto ill feelings you’re victimizing yourself. Let it go and take responsibility for making a positive future. You’re in charge of you and your actions.
- Coworkers, Customers, Suppliers. All the research, plus my 20 years as a consultant to thousands of business people, proves without a doubt that the success of an individual, a team, or an entire organization depends largely on the quality of the relationships. Remember, actions + relationships = results. When it comes to your coworkers, customers and suppliers, practice 100/0: take responsibility for those relationships, period.
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